Thursday, April 27, 2006

Anal Sex - The First Time

The first time you are fucked can be an incredible experience, but can also be a little bit painful as well, especially since you may be a little (or a lot) nervous and your muscle may be quite tense


  • Take it slowly and don't just let your partner push his cock in until you are really ready.
  • Start off with some foreplay, kissing, licking touching and massaging and get yourself nice and horny.
  • Get your partner to help you relax by maybe massaging you or just let yourself go and be free.
  • Make sure you have condoms and lubricant and lots of it.
  • Start by gently lubricating and concentrating on loosening up your ass. Take your time with this, it can take half an hour sometimes to even get two fingers in your ass.
  • Make sure that you are relaxed and loose.
  • Lie on your side with your partner behind you with a condom and lube on his cock.
  • Slowly let him push his penis against your ass,
  • Try pushing out like you are going to the toilet as this helps open up the sphincter.
  • As he gets a little bit in stop and breathe deeply and wait for any pain or discomfort to pass before proceeding.
  • If at any time you want to stop tell him to take it out. Always make sure that he understands that if you ask him to stop he stops. Trust is very important in anal sex.
  • Bit by bit push all of the penis inside until there is no more or you can't take any more.
  • Once you are ready let him push his penis slowly in and out of your ass.
  • As he passes over your prostate you may get jolts of pleasure and cum - this is perfectly normal!

So that's it for the anal sex first time, just keep on going until it hurts or you have both cum. Practice again and again and pretty soon you will be able to take his cock without any trouble at all and you will get more and more pleasure.

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